Me and this guy has been talking for over a year now. In february, we made it official that we are a couple. Things were going soo good. He was soo sweet, always doing nice things and it seemed as if i had him smitten. One day, i had went on twitter & saw that he had been tlkig to one of his exes. I was furiated. i confronted him about it and we got thru the situation. So, this weekend, i went on twitter and saw that he was talking to her again. So when i confront him about it, he basically says "its not like im having sex with her or going to see her" but my thing is, if u know u have a girlfriend why are u talking to another girl. He acts as if im just suppose to be okay with that. Plus lately he's been acting different too. He always used to say sweet things to me, now its just a dull conversation. no "babys", "i love yous" nothing. what should i do cuz i really wanna be with him but im not about to deal with no other girls, especially if i dont have to. HELP!!
Answer on I need advice, what should I do about him?
Relationships should be built on trust, and if you can't trust him with other girls then maybe you shouldn't be with him. Plus boys are allowed to have female friends, do you not have male friends? Your relationship obviously isn't working anymore so maybe you should end it. This may sound rather harsh but you have to trust each other, if you can't do that then there is no point. I could understand your anguish if he had done something with her or even flirted with her but by the sounds of it, he was just talking. Don't control who you boyfriends are mated with, it's not a good trate.
